We received our I171 H in the mail today! This is our last piece needed for our dossier, aside from our home study addendum which will be state certified and mailed directly to America World. Praise the Lord and thank you for your prayers as our family coordinator said this was really fast. We also had someone in our church, Tony Aiken, (thanks Tony and Onsted’s French teacher!) who found a Rosetta stone in French we can borrow, so we can start to learn French!
I am very behind in every aspect of updating. I hope to recalculate our fundraising soon and report to you all.
We had a successful trip getting fingerprinted. I must share this simple praise. Many of you know traveling in vehicles does not always go so great with my babies.(thankfully we fly to Haiti!) They tend to want out of their car seat to nurse or whatever…so I had been dreading the fingerprint trip. Normally Ella wakes up close to when I do, 6:45 ish…but that day she slept till 9. This meant her first nap was when we left to go pick Luke up at UT at 11:45. She slept the entire way to pick him up, and then the whole way to Detroit after that. There was no waiting in line at USCIS and then she did great overall on the way home. It was just a small way the Lord was showing me He will take care of all the details if I just trust Him. For me the hardest part of our adoption is leaving our children for two weeks and how Ella will do as we will take her with us. This too, I must trust Him for. Being obedient to God is always what is best for our children.
It has been a difficult road to be honest. So much has had to be done in a short period of time. In the adoption world putting together a dossier and doing all the “paper chasing” is called a paper pregnancy. There are so many things that go into it. One of these days I will compile an entire list…..a few examples: recent, official, state notarized birth and marriage certificates, police clearance letters, doctor physicals and letters, employment and non-employment letters, the homestudy, a psychological evaluation, reference letters, a bank letter, bank statements, power of attorneys, just to mention a few. And then most of these things have to be notarized and then state authenticated. It is just crazy! And everything we did from our Ethiopia dossier had to be redone for this Haiti one.
Yet, it is all so amazing because the Lord has provided strength and help at every turn. He has been so faithful. He has guided and directed. And tonight as I was re-reading David Platt’s book, Radical, I realized why. Here is a quote from his book:
“We learned that orphans are easier to ignore before you know their names. They are easier to ignore before you see their faces. It is easier to pretend they’re not real before you hold them in your arms. But, once you do, everything changes.”
We have yet to do the latter, but we do know their names, and we have seen their faces…and they are worth every minute of work and every dime we own, and all the dimes we don’t own. They are worth it, just like each of our biological children are worth it.
I was thinking today of how last year at this time I would tell Ally about kids who don’t have beds….and she would say, “let’s get them some beds.” I would say, well, it’s not that simple. While we do sponsor a compassion child, I did not really know a practical way to actually give a child in need….a bed. Well, we will be giving four precious boys beds and hopefully impart to them the knowledge of their loving savior!
We had a rough week last week of the lovely stomach flu. I talked with the kids tonight how many children suffer from vomiting and diarrhea often because they don’t have clean drinking water. Josh and Anna said how that would be so terrible. I asked them if when they were sick, did they think about the next “thing” they wanted to buy? They were like, no, we just wanted to feel better! So, I said, be thankful tonight that you feel better. So, as a family we are going to participate in the “Kenya Digit” race held on July 5, 2014 to raise money for a well in Kenya. If you are interested here is the link: http://living-water-mission.org/KENYA_DIG_IT_RACE.html
I surely would recommend to you to read either or both of the following books: Radical by David Platt, or the Hole in the Gospel by Richard Stearns. Either one really puts the perspective of the American Dream in perspective with Jesus words. Somehow we have missed Jesus words. The red letter words in most of our Bibles….look at the story of the Rich man and Lazarus in Luke 16:19-31.
Please know how much we thank you for and covet your prayers on this journey. And please know that I would love to pray for you re; anything, just shoot me an email!
Specific Prayer Requests:
- We would get to take the 2 week trip this summer
- The boys would be home by Christmas
- Grants would come through
- Salvation of 4 boys
- Provision in all the details
Many Blessings to Each of You,
May God be glorified,
Love, The Schaffner Family